Family, Reflections

The Bluebird of Happiness

He would have been two tomorrow. Cayne Aaron Brown. He was a cute little stinker who ran around stealing our hearts until his stopped forever on January 29, 2026. I'm so glad we had a chance to meet him and get to know his happy little self and we will forever remember his snuggles, belly… Continue reading The Bluebird of Happiness

Life Lately, Rewinds

Silent Screaming at 7am

ROXIE REWINDS ๐Ÿ’™Because some stories are just too good not to tell again. Originally published: May 21, 2013 The day started out pretty rough yesterday, as most Mondays usually do. I tried to put on one of those camisoles that are squishy-tight and supposedly smooth out your fat rolls like a tube of sausage. It… Continue reading Silent Screaming at 7am

adhd, Life Lately

Apparently I Ghosted Everyone in 2022

I ADHDโ€™d myself so hard that I forgot I had another Instagram account. Iโ€™ve lost and forgotten more things than I can fathom. Hair ties, bobby pins, contacts, lip gloss, keys, cups, credit cards, pants, jackets โ€ฆ itโ€™s been a lot. It makes me think of the saying, โ€œOf all the things Iโ€™ve lost, I… Continue reading Apparently I Ghosted Everyone in 2022

Life Lately, Rewinds

The Great Spider Incident of 2013

ROXIE REWINDS ๐Ÿ’™Because some stories are just too good not to tell again. Originally published: May 5, 2013 Let me tell you about the day I absolutely lost my mind over a spider. Iโ€™ve never really been scared of spiders. I just donโ€™t want to feel the crunch of their teeny-tiny selves getting smushed. Or… Continue reading The Great Spider Incident of 2013

Family, Parenting, Rewinds

Confessions of a Girl Scout Quitter

ROXIE REWINDS ๐Ÿ’™Because some stories are just too good not to tell again. Originally published: 10/2012 The wait is finally over โ€ฆ thatโ€™s right, people โ€ฆ itโ€™s GIRL SCOUT COOKIE SEASON! I thought it would never get here. I know I can get cookies at the storeโ€”heck, I could probably even make someโ€”but there are… Continue reading Confessions of a Girl Scout Quitter

Family, Holidays, Reflections

Rewriting the Easter Bunny Story

Easter. I think it probably brings different things to mind for everyone. I think of fluffy white bunnies, chocolate, and little kids in pastel outfits running around with baskets looking for eggs. Other people may think of church or religion. You could also think about family, big meals, and naps. But I think the resounding… Continue reading Rewriting the Easter Bunny Story

Family, Friendship, Reflections

We’re Probably in the Good Old Days

Nostalgia: a sad pleasure experienced in recalling what no longer exists.Thatโ€™s what Merriam-Webster says, anyway. The older we get, the more we feel it. At least I do. I get nostalgic about the smallest thingsโ€ฆ like the days when Trixie was pitter-pattering her little feet all over the cheap linoleum floors of the kitchen. She… Continue reading We’re Probably in the Good Old Days

Divorce, Family

The Day I Signed my Life Back

Thirteen years ago, I signed a lease on a small apartment. My daughter sat beside me. I finished signing, laid down the pen, and put my forehead on the desk. And then I cried. I felt a hand on my back. My sweet 18-year-old baby grownup, Trixie, leaned over and asked softly, "Mom? Are you… Continue reading The Day I Signed my Life Back

Family, Uncategorized

Sleeping Bags and Summer Nights: Cousin Sleepover Memories

Ten of us slept on the porch that summer. There were 12 of us all together, though. We were a tight-knit group of cousins who saw each other as a group only once a year, but we knew each other better than the friends we surrounded ourselves with when we were apart. Family does that… Continue reading Sleeping Bags and Summer Nights: Cousin Sleepover Memories